Friday, October 4, 2019

MILITARY SPOUSE Q&A: marrying young & what made our relationship stronger? 5

I got the questions short but I don't want to make. This video super super long but the question is what is the hardest part about marriage so. That question. I actually have to sit and think about it. Because I really enjoyed marriage and I've honestly had no complaints. I don't know that's obviously not like a forever lasting thing obviously.

We didn't like arguments sometimes and our relationship isn't perfect but as far as marriage I've never had a complaint about it I think the only thing I would say is the hardest part is sort of ties in to what I said just earlier the last question but I think the hardest part is the fear of letting your partner down and I know that's a very broad statement but that was always my biggest thing is I didn't want to let him down not just not. Even just as a wife but this is like your person like your best friend like being there for him and making sure.

That he was okay in that I was noticing if. Something was wrong also on my part making sure. That I was doing what I needed to do in order to move forward oh my god my battery is dying I'm gonna change my battery right now. All right it's a good thing I have a spare but as. I was saying pretty much yeah it's it's the fear of letting your partner down. Another thing with. That is it's important to remember. That every decision.

That you make will affect your partner. I was always so used to making decisions and then having no effect on anyone else other. Me but now that I was with. Someone committed to someone it not only affects. Me but it affects him too. It was harder in the beginning just. Because I was getting used to it but I've been learning every step of the way and real life. You know and it was what's cool. Though is that knowing that -.

Though it's difficult in the beginning it's sort of but it sort of makes. You accountable and motivates. You more because it's not just. You like you need to be motivated for your relationship and for this other person. Because when it's just. You sometimes who can just get really lazy but whatever challenges. We have I know that we will overcome. It so I'm very very lucky. That I have him and very grateful for our little family Penelope sleeping back there so yeah that's about all the questions I'm going to answer today. You guys enjoyed. It I hope you guys enjoyed my first Q um oh my god those batteries dying too so. I have to end. It no matter. What alright my videos by.

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