That in the beginning but I knew in my heart. That I honestly could not picture my life with him not in it and that could mean a million things. Because you know relationships couples go through their own struggles so. If work together. He was always gonna be in my life. Even just as a friend like. I could not see him not being there so.
That answers your question. All right if these next two questions are sort of intertwined so I'm just going to read them. Both out loud and the first. One is when Stephen popped the question did. You know it was coming and did. You talk about marriage in your situation of him being overseas or was. It a surprise so. I will start off by saying this. You are in a military relationship a lot of traveling is involved so. Whether you're with the person prior to them joining or you met. You know during marriage is a really big topic.
Because like. I said traveling is a big thing deployment pcsing even just their first duty station like students or student station is here in Germany. We didn't know that in the beginning obviously. It took us a lot of it to find that out for them to tell him but if. You guys do. If you're your military relationship and you want to stay together marriage is a topic. That you really do have to talk about and figure out. What you both want and in our case to be completely honest with. You guys before. You went in we have planned on separating and I know after.
Everything that just said you're like. What um but we planned on taking a break and then eventually. We realized it's not. What we wanted. We wanted to experience. This journey together especially after finding out. He was going to be overseas. You really wanted. Me to come and that's all I wanted. I wanted him to tell. He felt because. I obviously. I don't want pressure didn't make him feel like like Oh Lord. She asked me to come so um. I waited for him to ask.
Me and I'm really really glad. That he did. Because I was 100% totally down for it this has probably been. One of the best decisions. That we've ever made as a couple and I'm really fortunate to just be living the way. That we do and as far as being surprised. He asked me to marry him. Because we had talked about it I I knew. It was coming obviously. He was coming I didn't know. I didn't know. Where and what made. It so much more special was. We talked about it.
That answers your question. All right if these next two questions are sort of intertwined so I'm just going to read them. Both out loud and the first. One is when Stephen popped the question did. You know it was coming and did. You talk about marriage in your situation of him being overseas or was. It a surprise so. I will start off by saying this. You are in a military relationship a lot of traveling is involved so. Whether you're with the person prior to them joining or you met. You know during marriage is a really big topic.
Because like. I said traveling is a big thing deployment pcsing even just their first duty station like students or student station is here in Germany. We didn't know that in the beginning obviously. It took us a lot of it to find that out for them to tell him but if. You guys do. If you're your military relationship and you want to stay together marriage is a topic. That you really do have to talk about and figure out. What you both want and in our case to be completely honest with. You guys before. You went in we have planned on separating and I know after.
Everything that just said you're like. What um but we planned on taking a break and then eventually. We realized it's not. What we wanted. We wanted to experience. This journey together especially after finding out. He was going to be overseas. You really wanted. Me to come and that's all I wanted. I wanted him to tell. He felt because. I obviously. I don't want pressure didn't make him feel like like Oh Lord. She asked me to come so um. I waited for him to ask.
Me and I'm really really glad. That he did. Because I was 100% totally down for it this has probably been. One of the best decisions. That we've ever made as a couple and I'm really fortunate to just be living the way. That we do and as far as being surprised. He asked me to marry him. Because we had talked about it I I knew. It was coming obviously. He was coming I didn't know. I didn't know. Where and what made. It so much more special was. We talked about it.
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